My pastor, Pastor Bob from Calvary Chapel Fort Lauderdale sent out an email and this was in it.  I had to share

"No, I’m not talking about a resolution. The word “resolve” implies a changing of your mind...the Bible tells us we need to change our hearts.

How can you do that?

• Christ has a path for you. “A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.” (Prov. 16:9)
   
• Your 'problem' may be God correcting your path for His purpose. “Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God.” (Ps. 143:10)
   
• Perseverance through a trial is not a failure. “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on." (Phil. 3:12)
   
• Today could be your last day to change anything at all. “Then I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within them.” (Ez. 11:19)"